How do you deal with stress? I find that I do any one of a number of things, which are both productive and counterproductive.
1. I get irritable. Now I am normally a pretty easygoing person, but when I feel overwhelmed, the people living with me know it. I try not to take things out on people, but it's hard not to let a little spilt milk bother you when you already have so many pots boiling over on the back burners.
2. I take baths. Even without the bubbles, sometimes it's very therapeutic to allow your muscles to relax while they soak in hot water.
3. I drink. I'm not proud of this, but occasionally I do find solace in a bottle of 2/$10 Flip Flop Chardonnay and a bag of Doritos.
4. I cry. This may seem counterproductive, but it's one of the easiest and most cathartic ways to let out your emotions. Holding it in is never the answer.
5. I treat myself to things. Like food. And... well, mostly food. But I don't overdo it. Usually, it's small amounts of chocolate, or sushi, or a nice meal out. Fast food does not bring me joy like it used to. It's gotta be good food.
I probably did all five of these things during the past two weeks. Another thing I did was let myself not be productive. I knew I was too distracted to get much done, so I allowed myself to relax and have a week where I mostly watched movies and ate. It really helped to decide to slack off for a little while, without the pressure of a to-do list looming overhead.
So for the next time I get stressed out (and I'm sure there will be a next time eventually), what are your best recommendations for de-stressing? What works for you?